It's time to WIN!

by Azdi 4 comments



It's been ages since i last jotted something of my two cents. I've come across something during my on line reading. It's about how do we define winning. Based on a notes of Robert T Kiyosaki, winning is divided into 5 different sets. Let us choose on how do we define winning in our life:


1." I win when i feel comfortable!"
This person’s primary goal is to just go through life as comfortably as possible. They do not want stress. They do not want to be pushed or challenged. They do not like conflict. They just want to go through life on cruise control, hanging out with their friends, and having a good time. 


Everything they do is designed to support their pursuit of comfort. This is your average, life-long employee who is more than happy to have a safe, stable, comfortable job. If you push this person away from that goal, and challenge them or their routine lifestyle, watch out!

2. "I win by being liked!"
This person’s primary goal in life is to be liked by others. They want acceptance from everyone, and will do just about anything to reach that goal. They would rather be liked, than be right or wrong. 


When you put someone like this in a leadership role, the business will usually fail because they will not be willing to make hard decisions that would anger someone. They would try to please everyone all the time because their ultimate motivation is to be liked by others.

3."I win by being right!"
This person is usually an expert in a specific field like a professor, lawyer, or MAYBE a wife.  People who win by being right, do not accept criticism and are not open to new ideas. They tend to reach a glass ceiling when it comes to money, their career, and relationships, because they cannot accept their shortcomings in order to move past them and achieve personal growth. 


Arguing with this person WILL never works because they will always find a way to prove you wrong, even if it means sabotaging your company in the process. In order to win, this person must be right.

4."I win by winning!"
This person is an achiever. Their primary motivation is solely to WIN. They are very competitive, and will do whatever it takes to win. They won’t quit, and they’ll constantly push themselves to gain the edge they need.


This category describes all successful entrepreneurs. Winning is their reward, and on the dark side, some of them will go too far and compromise their integrity in order to do so. 


This type of person does not care if others do not like them, and they welcome discomfort because it provides them with new opportunities to win.


5. "I win by losing!"
This person wins by being a victim. They want sympathy from others or their spouse. Just when things start to get better, they will sabotage themselves, and say, “I knew it wouldn’t work”, giving them their victory once again.


Their lives are always filled with problems because they do not win unless they lose, so they create circumstances and excuses that help them fulfill that destiny like, “Your blog posts doesn’t teach me anything new. I do not have the money. This is just another phase of my life. I’ll give it a TRY…” 


There are people who are not successful because they wanted to be in a comfort zone. There are people who are stuck in the same state without a advancements for many years because they want to be a liked. There are people who are addicted to struggle because they know they'll win only by losing.



most likely, we will see that a little of ourself in each of these categories. I know I do, but what’s important to remember, is that winning is a continuous process that is brought to an end once you’ve won, which is an event. As soon as we’ve “won”, the process starts all over again.. 

Entrepreneurs win by winning, and they’ll do whatever it takes to fulfill that subconscious desire.


We have complete power over every aspect of our life and we can definitely reinvent ourself, and the way we win at any time, but it’s a process that will require complete dedication.


All the points is taken somewhere in the Internet, written by somebody i don't know (hahahaha).
This notes is made By Azdi Khairil, Business Manager of 
QubicMind.

Comments 4 comments
ysfhgirl said...

really think that i'm in the 1st category which is win when feel comfortable...
but the issue is i'm a problematic person...sound like 5th category more suitable for me... :)
Am i right? always confused even about myself...

FARAHana said...

It's quite confusing to categorize yourself. I thought at first i am in the 1st category, but after that i felt that i am in 3rd category.

Just like you said, we are a little bit similar in each category. :)

Azdi Khairil said...

hurm..one thing good here is that we can really know who we really are.
as for japanese people, they believed that the most powerful strength they have is the power of MIRROR (the strength to look at oneself & facing the demon within).
lets open our heart, maybe..we can change something here. i do hope, we can get somewhere, somehow, here.

FARAHana said...

Obviously...

:D


Azdi Khairil
is a proud owner of Qubic groups of startups.
He's on the hunt for some profitable collaboration
-and more importantly-
a teh tarik treat from a new friend.

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